Rewrote some of the socket code to allow m_ssl to be a service.

This allows modules (xmlrpc) to create and accept SSL connections.
Also fixed unloading m_mysql at certain times and made the threading
engine always work correctly on Windows.

src/users.cpp

@@ -741,6 +741,7 @@ User *do_nick(const Anope::string &source, const Anope::string &nick, const Anop
 		if (!vhost.empty())
 			user->SetCloakedHost(vhost);
 		user->SetVIdent(username);
+		user->SetModesInternal(modes.c_str());
 
 		if (!ip.empty())
 		{